I have also found that the guy who says he's the "nice guy" often isn't. I am in high tech here in silicon valley. May I ask you, especially you, Ann, when did you last take inventory of how you sexually identify yourself, by yourself and then, together with your hubby, and-or with an added lover you find who gifts Whether you have an appetite for a one- night stand with what you desire hubby to give and be for you?
Sex should be the the ultimate way to show that love and devotion to your spouse or significant other…not tread dangerous grounds and explore and be with other people.
Madison, to me, maybe to others here, your wife just left the door wide open to you to offer her the best relationship of her, and your lives! I don't know where this is going but I don't worry whether it works or not. Then he comes back next year. Thank you!