My answer will likely seem off topic and possibly confusing. It would be like going to a date wearing really sloppy clothes. This is complete horse shit. It is also much closer to real life dating.
The woman who is You sound very mature and reasonable and I like your perspective. I stopped reading this when I got to the phrase "Women these days" I figured it was all downhill from there. Let me know if you are still single! I learned quite a bit just from reading those entries.
I am surprised how many men want women to be physically fit which by the way i totally agree with.